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How to Write a Wedding Speech the Couple Will Love

other · 2026-07-19

A wedding speech requires balancing humor and sentimentality, with a typical length of two to four minutes (500–1000 words). Experts Allison Shapira (Global Public Speaking) and Steven Greitzer (Provenance) recommend a structure of story, message, and blessing. Speeches should avoid drama, focus on the couple, and be practiced aloud. AI tools like Provenance can help generate a first draft. Delivery tips include printing the speech, avoiding phone use, and limiting alcohol beforehand.

Key facts

  • Wedding speech length: 2–4 minutes (500–1000 words).
  • Allison Shapira is founder and CEO of Global Public Speaking.
  • Steven Greitzer is CEO and founder of Provenance.
  • Recommended structure: story, message, blessing.
  • Balance humor and sentimentality.
  • Practice speech aloud and get feedback.
  • Print speech instead of reading from phone.
  • Avoid alcohol before delivering the toast.

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Institutions

  • Global Public Speaking
  • Provenance

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