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Dr. Trainwreck Offers Dating Advice for Straight Men

other · 2026-07-03

In a column for Artillery Magazine, Dr. Trainwreck responds to a straight man seeking non-toxic dating advice. She argues that most dating advice is inherently toxic and that men and women are different. She warns against the manosphere and notes that female friends often judge partners harshly. Practical tips include identifying non-negotiables (e.g., being anti-choice, owning Sublime merchandise) and trusting one's nervous system. She shares a personal anecdote about a past relationship where physical sickness was a warning sign.

Key facts

  • Dr. Trainwreck writes an advice column for Artillery Magazine.
  • The letter writer is a straight man seeking dating advice.
  • Dr. Trainwreck claims most dating advice is toxic.
  • She says men and women are different.
  • She advises avoiding the manosphere.
  • She states female friends often judge partners.
  • Non-negotiables include being anti-choice or owning Sublime merchandise.
  • She recommends trusting one's nervous system.

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Artists

  • Dr. Trainwreck

Institutions

  • Artillery Magazine

Locations

  • Los Angeles

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