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Netflix Doc 'Should I Marry a Murderer?' Tracks Love and Crime in Scotland

other · 2026-04-29

The new true crime documentary from Netflix, 'Should I Marry a Murderer?', delves into the ethical quandary faced by Dr. Caroline Muirhead, who learned that her fiancé, Alexander 'Sandy' McKellar, had committed murder. In 2017, McKellar and his twin brother Robert fatally struck charity cyclist Tony Parsons in Argyll and Bute, Scotland, subsequently burying his remains. Muirhead met McKellar via Tinder in the fall of 2020, and shortly after, he revealed his dark secret. Although she reported the incident to the authorities, she maintained their relationship, secretly aiding the investigation for nearly three years. The brothers were arrested in December 2020, charged in December 2021, and in July 2023, McKellar pleaded guilty to culpable homicide, receiving a 12-year sentence, while Robert received five years and three months. Director Josh Allott and producer Clare Beavis emphasize Muirhead's courage and the sluggishness of the justice system. Muirhead lodged complaints against Police Scotland, most of which were not upheld. The documentary seeks to illustrate the effects of being involved in crime from the sidelines.

Key facts

  • Dr Caroline Muirhead discovered her fiancé Alexander 'Sandy' McKellar had killed a man.
  • McKellar and his twin brother Robert struck and killed charity cyclist Tony Parsons in 2017.
  • The body was buried in Argyll and Bute, Scotland, and lay undiscovered for three years.
  • Muirhead met McKellar on Tinder in autumn 2020 and they became engaged within weeks.
  • Muirhead reported the crime to police but continued the relationship while cooperating secretly.
  • She recorded confessions and dropped a Red Bull can as a marker at the burial site.
  • The brothers were arrested in December 2020, charged in December 2021.
  • Sandy McKellar was sentenced to 12 years; Robert to five years and three months in July 2023.

Entities

Institutions

  • Netflix
  • BBC
  • Police Scotland
  • Victim Support Scotland
  • High Court in Glasgow

Locations

  • Argyll and Bute
  • Scotland
  • Auch Estate
  • Glencoe Village
  • Bridge of Orchy Hotel
  • Glasgow

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