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Kerry Payne Stailey's 'The Children (I Never Had)' Confronts Infertility Grief

publication · 2026-05-06

Kerry Payne Stailey, a photographer from Australia now living in Maine, has created a series called 'The Children (I Never Had),' which delves into the emotional struggles of infertility. This collection captures a year filled with both hope and heartbreak through powerful images and personal narratives. Although she initially kept her experiences private, encouragement from photographer Duane Michals during a workshop led her to enhance the work's poetic aspects, including striking high-speed shots of menstrual fluid in water. The series has resonated globally, receiving tens of thousands of responses. Stailey’s work has been featured in major outlets like Time Lightbox and The New York Times Lens Blog, and she was named 'Photographer of the Year' by the Lucie Foundation in 2015. She studied at various prestigious institutions and founded Blenheim Park Maine for photography workshops. Alongside this series, she also works on projects like 'My Father’s Daughter' and 'Dear Ethanol.' After twelve years, Stailey and her husband feel content in their life together, while she continues to explore new creative endeavors.

Key facts

  • Kerry Payne Stailey is an Australian-born, Maine-based photographer.
  • The Children (I Never Had) is a photographic series about infertility.
  • The series was inspired by a workshop with Duane Michals, who urged publication.
  • Stailey captured menstrual fluid in water at high speed for a more poetic effect.
  • The project received tens of thousands of messages from people worldwide.
  • Stailey was named 'Photographer of the Year' by the Lucie Foundation in 2015.
  • Her work has appeared in Time Lightbox, The New York Times Lens Blog, Marie Claire, Esquire, and Burn Magazine.
  • She studied at the International Center of Photography, School of Visual Arts, and New York University.
  • She founded Blenheim Park Maine, a creative estate hosting photography workshops.
  • Stailey is currently working on two new autobiographical projects.

Entities

Artists

  • Kerry Payne Stailey
  • Duane Michals
  • Cig Harvey
  • Greg Gorman
  • Pamela Springsteen
  • Maggie Steber
  • Sarah Leen
  • George Nobechi
  • Aline Smithson
  • Claire Rosen

Institutions

  • Lucie Foundation
  • International Center of Photography
  • School of Visual Arts
  • New York University
  • Blenheim Park Maine
  • Lenscratch
  • Time Lightbox
  • The New York Times Lens Blog
  • Marie Claire
  • Esquire
  • Burn Magazine
  • Academy of Art in San Francisco

Locations

  • Queensland
  • Australia
  • Maine
  • United States
  • San Francisco
  • New York City
  • Midcoast Maine

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